Why do single women, or even those in secure relationships chase after married men when they know full well they are attached to another woman? Easy, the thrill of the chase, the unfortunate human condition of wanting to have the food on someone else’s plate, because it looks, and in most cases tastes, that much better than your own.
A study carried out by the University of Louisville concluded that many single women start to engage in an activity called, ‘mate copying’.’ The physiological mechanics behind this process can be explained like this. If you, a single woman, see another woman courting or actively attaching themselves with a man, you believe that he must possesses something of value, and is also worth pursuing.
You can see incidents of this happening all the time. If you’re a female try going out with any of your popular male friends, either to a restaurant or club, the instant other women think you’re with them they’ll being flirting uncontrollably with your male friends. Part of this is down to the fact that if they see a good looking woman, like yourself, enjoying the company of a good looking man, they have to quickly step up to the plat to assert their dominance and role as being, an equally, if not better female.
We believe there’s multiple reasons for women to carry out this act. Whether it’s for the challenge, the excitement of the unfolding drama, no strings fun or just simply the trill of the chase – whatever the case many women have admitted that sex with a married man is unbelievable, and in most cases the best sex of their lives. And why is this? Well put it like this, for every day for the last however many years he’s been eating burgers, and here you come along offering him the most juicy, rare steak he’s ever tasted. Of course he’s going to savour every bite!
It’s more exciting to be risky and sneaky
Stephanie, 26 who has a job of a manager in a big corporation in London told us that she had an affair with a married man who worked in her department. “The sex was unreal because we constantly had to be careful all the time. So when I was bent over the desk holding the filing cabinet to make sure it didn’t make a sound, as he penetrated me from behind with long, hard deep thrusts during lunchtime, it would get me going like no other sex I’ve ever had!”
After asking Stephanie if the risk of being caught made the sex that much better, she had the following to say. “Oh hell yes, most definitely. I’ve never felt a thrill like it. I was wrapped up in the enjoyment of amazing sex, and knowing at any moment I could be caught doing it, it really was intoxicating!”
We quizzed her on how the relationship eventually fizzled out, and if she ever regrets the choices she made to have sex with a married man. “He ended up getting moved to a different department, which meant relocating to a new building on the other side of the country. In all honesty it probably worked out for the best, we both managed to get what we wanted for a while, and it ended with not one of us getting caught, or getting in trouble. No I don’t really regret it, at the end of the day it takes two to tango, and he wanted to tango every night with me!”
Pros of sleeping with a married man
§ Their male friends will love you, which is both creepy and fun.
§ It’s a concrete “fuck you” to the kind of Stepford life everyone is pressuring you to have.
§ There is no pressure in the relationship. You are fun. The relationship is fun. There’s no “where is this going” because it is, by definition, not going anywhere. No other kind of relationship has this “defined from the start” freedom to it.
§ The person is cheating on someone for you, which makes you feel more desirable than being with someone who has nothing to lose by being with you.
§ You make him feel desirable, which is something you lose after being in a relationship for a long time, so it’s fun to make someone really happy.
§ Married men are likely older men. Older men are better at sex. Like, a lot better.
§ Plus, secret sex is automatically elevated in terms of how turned on you are. There’s
§ always an element of “we shouldn’t be doing this.”
§ They will compliment the shit out of you because you’re a novelty to them. You have all the things that seem awesome to them, only because they’ve forgotten what it’s like to be young and single.
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